Let's Talk About Sex

My Friend Danny and I were talk today during lunch break. As much as we talk about alot of different topics it always seems to some how come around to sex talk.

Todays topic was '"Power Tools" or "Toys" and masturbation.

Unlike most women I seem to have an overly active high sex drive.

So when this topic came up I had to bring the question up to see what a typical guys answer would be (Which I already knew) but being with my husband up for over 10 years, up until recently, I was kinda starting to second guess myself.

So the question I posed was this: Say you were laying in bed with your GF, Wife, Significant other etc and you noticed she was starting to play with herself. What would you do? How would you feel?

Most would say maybe watch for a bit then when you couldn't take it any longer join in, right?That's what I thought. Well for me I wasnt so lucky. As long as I didnt bother my husband for any pleasurable tasks he was happy. So I had to turn my my toys.

Which in turn lead to another question. Well maybe not so much of a question as a statement Danny made.

He said that if he was to see his gf masturbating that it would definitely turn him on and it wouldnt take hime long to get aroused. And in turn he would definitely have to participate in her fun. But then he made a comment that he might be slightly intimidated by her using the toy.

In asking why he would be intimidated, he mentioned that the toy will never get tired and will keep going and going and going. So what would make her just turn to her toy and not want to have anything to do with him?

So Guys...... Is it intimidating for you?
And Girls if you had a guy who wanted to take care of you sexually and you did have a toy would you end up turning to you toy more? I think not, but that is just me.

I think Incorporating both together is extrememly exciting and fun and can make things last even longer!

Then the question of size was brought up. I told Danny that size doesnt really matter as long as the guy knows what he is doing. But he was arguing with me that size does matter. He said he never heard a female tell him that they wished he was smaller.

Well Hello....we arent' going to say we want smaller. But just because you are big -- if you dont know how to use it then what does it matter????

So another question is...... Does size really matter?